Ibaadat Mein Dil Ka Saath Na Dena — Aur Uska Raasta.

 

Ibaadat Mein Dil Ka Saath Na Dena — Aur Uska Raasta.

Agar tum yahan tak aaye ho,
iska matlab hai ke tum sirf sawaal nahi pooch rahe —
tum jawab ki talash mein ho.

Aur ye talash khud ek ibaadat hai.

Isse pehle ke blog mein humne ye samjha ke:

• dhyaan ka bhatakna normal hai

• khud ko bura kehna Shaitan ka jaal hai

• aur ibaadat pressure se nahi, pyaar se shuru hoti hai

Ab thoda aur gehra chalte hain.

Kyunke asal masla sirf dhyaan ka nahi hota,
asal masla hota hai dil ke bojh ka.

Sahi kaha na?

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Kabhi Kabhi Masla Ibaadat Ka Nahi, Zindagi Ka Hota Hai

Sach batao —
jab zindagi heavy ho jaati hai,
toh dil Allah ke saamne bhi thaka thaka sa hota hai.

Socho:

• unresolved dard

• kisi ka diya hua zakhm

• guilt jo saalon se andar daba hua hai

• ya expectations jo tum poori nahi kar paaye

Ye sab cheezein namaz ke waqt achanak saamne aa jaati hain.

Iska matlab ye nahi ke tum Allah se bhaag rahe ho.
Iska matlab ye hai ke tumhara dil pehle Sukoon paana chahta hai.

Aur Allah se zyada kaun samajhta hai dil ke zakhmon ko?

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Allah Tumse Performance Nahi, Presence Chahta Hai

Hum aksar sochte hain:

• namaz perfect honi chahiye

• khulus poora hona chahiye

• aankhon mein aansu aane chahiye

Lekin ek baat yaad rakho:

👉 Allah tumhari acting nahi, tumhari haazri dekhta hai.

Agar tum bas itna keh rahe ho:
“Ya Allah, main khada hoon…
lekin andar se bohot toota hua hoon”

Toh ye bhi ek sachchi ibaadat hai.

Kabhi kabhi Allah ko wo namaz zyada pyari hoti hai
jisme lafz kam aur sach zyada hota hai.

Jab hum kucch na keh ke bhi andar se ye sochkar ro rahe

hote hai ke hum apna haal Allah se bayan kar rahe hai,

tab bhi woh sunn raha hota hai, aur woh bhi ibaadat ka hissa hota 

hai jisme ye yakeen maujood hai ke "Haan Allah meri baat sunn raha hai"

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Ibaadat Ek Connection Hai, Checklist Nahi

Hum ibaadat ko aksar checklist bana lete hain:

• farz ✔

• sunnat ✔

• tasbeeh ✔

Aur phir kehte hain:
“Pata nahi phir bhi dil kyun khaali hai?”

Kyunke dil checklist se nahi bharta.
Dil connection se bharta hai.

Jaise kisi apne ke saath:
agar sirf formality nibhao,
toh rishta zinda nahi rehta.

Allah ke saath bhi rishta tab zinda hota hai
jab tum real hote ho.

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Khamoshi Mein Baithna Bhi Ibaadat Hai

Ye zaroori nahi ke har dafa:

• dua lambi ho

• alfaaz zyada ho

Kabhi kabhi bas:

• ja-namaaz par baith jao

• kuch mat bolo

• sirf Allah ko yaad karo

Agar aankhon se aansu aa gaye — theek
Agar kuch mehsoos hi nahi hua — phir bhi theek

Allah khamoshi bhi samajhta hai.

Tumhara chup rehna bhi uske saamne ek baat hoti hai.

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Apne Gunaahon Se Bhag Kar Nahi, Allah Ki Taraf Aao

Bahut log ibaadat isliye chhod dete hain kyunke:

• “main bohot gunahgar hoon”

• “pehle sudhar jaun, phir namaz padhunga”

Lekin ye baat dil mein baitha lo:

👉 Ibaadat gunah chhodne ke baad nahi,
gunah chhodne ke liye hoti hai.

Agar tum toot ke Allah ke paas aa rahe ho,
toh tum galat jagah nahi aaye.

Allah ne kabhi ye nahi kaha:
“Pehle perfect bano, phir mere paas aana”

Usne toh kaha:
“Laut aao… main maaf karne wala hoon” Subhanallah.

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Ibaadat Ka Matlab Hamesha Sukoon Mehsoos Karna Nahi

Ek bohot important baat:
har namaz ke baad sukoon mehsoos hona zaroori nahi.

Kabhi:

• dil heavy rahega

• dimagh bhara hoga

• khayal zyada aayenge

Iska matlab ye nahi ke namaz qubool nahi hui.

Iska matlab sirf itna ho sakta hai ke:
Allah tumhare andar ka bojh nikaal raha hai — dheere dheere.

Healing hamesha achi feel nahi hoti.
Kabhi kabhi wo painful bhi hoti hai.

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Apni Ibaadat Ka Safar Kisi Se Compare Mat Karo

Social media par:

• log roti hui namaz dikhate hain

• long tahajjud routines share karte hain

Aur phir hum sochte hain:
“Main itna peeche kyun hoon?”

Yaad rakho:

• har dil ka safar alag hota hai

• har kisi ka bojh alag hota hai

Tumhara ek sajda
shayad kisi aur ki poori raat ki ibaadat se zyada qeemti ho —
sirf isliye kyunke tum sach ke saath aaye ho.

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Agar Aaj Dil Nahi Lag Raha, Phir Bhi Darwaza Mat Band Karo

Sabse khatarnaak cheez ye hoti hai ke hum keh dete hain:

“Jab dil lagega tab padhunga”

Aur phir mahine guzar jaate hain.

Isse behtar ye hai ke:

• dil na bhi lage

• phir bhi salaam keh do

• phir bhi sajda kar lo

Kyunke kabhi kabhi:
ibaadat dil ko nahi,
dil ibaadat ko follow karta hai.

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Aakhri Yaad Dahani

Agar tum ye soch rahe ho ke:

• “main bohot peeche hoon”

• “mera iman kamzor hai”

Toh ek baat yaad rakhna:

👉 Jo shakhs Allah ko yaad kar ke ro raha hai,
wo kabhi Allah se door nahi hota.

Tumhara struggle
tumhari rejection nahi,
tumhari sincerity ka saboot hai.

Bas ruke mat.
Chahe chhota qadam ho,
chahe dheema ho.

Allah tumhari taraf
ek qadam se bhi zyada qareeb aata hai 🌙

Der na karo waqt hai abhi shuru karlo

Maut ke baad mauka nahi milega.

Agar Ibaadat Me Dhyaan Nahi Lagta, Toh Ibaadat Kaise Shuru Karein?

 Agar Ibaadat Me Dhyaan Nahi Lagta, Toh Ibaadat Kaise Shuru Karein?

Bahut log is baat ko maan’ne se bhi darte hain, lekin sach ye hai ke

ibaadat me dhyaan na lagna ek common problem hai.

Tum akele nahi ho.

Kabhi namaz padhte hue khayal idhar-udhar chala jaata hai,

kabhi dua karte waqt dil saath nahi deta,

aur kabhi toh bas ye lagta hai ke hum sirf formality poori kar rahe hain.

Iska matlab ye bilkul bhi nahi ke tum bure insaan ho,

ya Allah tumse naraaz hai.

Iska matlab sirf itna hai ke tumhara dil thaka hua hai,

aur usey pyaar se wapas Allah ki taraf laane ki zarurat hai.

Sabse Pehli Baat: Khud Ko Galat Mat Samjho

Bahut se log sochte hain:

“Mera iman kamzor hai”

“Mujhse ibaadat hoti hi nahi”

“Main pakka munafiq hoon”

Ye sab Shaitan ke khayal hote hain.

Yaad rakho:

 Allah ne tumhe ibaadat ka khayal diya — ye hi bohot badi baat hai.

Jise Allah ki yaad ka dard mehsoos hota hai,

wo Allah se door nahi hota.

Ibaadat Perfect Hone Se Pehle, Asaan Honi Chahiye

Hum aksar ye galti karte hain ke:

ekdum lambi namaz ka plan bana lete hain

poora Quran ek saath padhne ka irada kar lete hain

Aur jab follow nahi hota, toh sab chhod dete hain.

Isliye pehla rule yaad rakho:

> Ibaadat chhoti ho, lekin regularly ho.

Namaz Se Shuru Karo, Lekin Pressure Ke Saath Nahi

Agar 5 waqt ki namaz mushkil lag rahi hai,

toh khud ko force mat karo.

Shuruat is tarah karo:

pehle sirf 1 namaz waqt par

phir dheere dheere 2

phir 3

Allah effort dekhta hai, perfection nahi.

Dil Se Baat Karna Bhi Ibaadat Hai

Bahut log sochte hain ke dua matlab sirf Arabic lafz.

Aisa bilkul nahi hai.

Agar tum bas itna keh do:

> “Ya Allah, mujhe tere paas aana hai,

lekin mujhe raasta samajh nahi aa raha.”

Ye bhi sachchi dua hai.

Kabhi kabhi Allah se baat karna,

Allah ke baare me padhna se zyada powerful hota hai.

Chhoti Chhoti Aadat Banao

Ibaadat ko ekdum heavy mat banao.

Usey daily life ka hissa banao.

Jaise:

uthte hi “Alhamdulillah”

sone se pehle 1 chhoti dua

koi bhi kaam shuru karte waqt “Bismillah”

Ye chhoti aadatein dil ko dheere dheere Allah se jodti hain.

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Phone Se Thoda Door, Dil Ke Thoda Paas

Sach bolein toh humara dhyaan zyada tar:

phone

notifications

reels

messages

me chala jaata hai.

Isliye jab ibaadat ka waqt ho:

phone silent

screen ulta rakh do

sirf 5 minute apne aur Allah ke liye

Tum khud mehsoos karogi ke sukoon aane lagta hai.

Quran Ko Samajhne Ki Niyat Se Padho

Agar Arabic samajh nahi aati, toh:

translation padho

2–3 ayat bhi kaafi hain

Quran sirf tilawat nahi,

Allah ka tumse direct message hai.

Jab tum samajh kar padhogi,

toh dil naturally connect karega.

Ibaadat Me Khayal Aana Gunah Nahi Hai

Namaz me khayal aana insani fitrat hai.

Iska matlab ye nahi ke namaz bekaar ho gayi.

Bas jab khayal aaye:

khud ko daanto mat

bas dheere se wapas namaz ki taraf laao

Allah tumhari koshish likh raha hota hai.

Apne Aap Ko Time Do

Ibaadat ek relationship hai.

Aur har relationship time leti hai.

Agar aaj dil nahi laga, toh kal dobara koshish karo.

Allah thakta nahi, hum thakte hain.

Aakhri Baat (Sabse Zaroori)

Ibaadat unke liye nahi hoti jo perfect hote hain.

Ibaadat unke liye hoti hai jo toote hue hote hain.

Agar tum ye mehsoos kar rahe ho ke:

> “Mujhe Allah ki zarurat hai”

Toh yaqeen maano,

Allah tumse already bohot qareeb hai 

Bas ek chhota sa qadam uthao,

baqi raasta Allah asaan kar deta hai.

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     Ramzan aa raha hai.

     Har saal ki tarah chand dekha jayega, messages aayenge, status lagenge — “Ramzan Mubarak”.

     Lekin is baar ek sawaal khud se poochna zaroori hai:

     Kya hum waqai tayaar hain?

     Ya phir hum sirf calendar ke hisaab se Ramzan ka intezaar kar rahe hain,

     jabke dil, soch aur rooh abhi bhi pichhle saalon jaise hi hain?

     Ramzan sirf ek mahina nahi hota.

     Ye ek daawat hoti hai — Allah ki taraf se.

      Aur daawat ke liye sirf kapde nahi, dil bhi tayaar kiya jata hai.

      Tayari ka matlab sirf roza nahi

      Jab Ramzan ka naam aata hai,

      humari soch seedha yahin jaakar ruk jaati hai:

      Sehri

       Iftar

       Namaz    

       Taraweeh   

           Ye sab zaroori hai, lekin sach ye hai ke

           Ramzan ki tayari pet se zyada, dil se shuru hoti hai.

           Agar: Dil me gussa bhara ho

           Kisi se nafrat ho

           Kisi ko maaf na kar paaye ho

           Ya khud se hi khafa ho

           Toh roza sirf bhooka reh jana ban kar reh jaata hai.

           Allah ko bhook nahi chahiye, Allah ko tumhara palatna chahiye.

           Dil saaf kiye bina Ramzan ka asar kyun kam rehta hai?

            Kabhi notice kiya hai? Kuch log Ramzan me bhi: Bechain rehte hain

            Gussa jaldi aa jata hai, Dil bhaari hi rehta hai

            Aur phir kehte hain:

           “Pata nahi, is baar Ramzan jaisa feel hi nahi aa raha.”

           Shayad isliye, kyunki humne andar ki safai nahi ki.

           Ramzan ek aaina hai.

           Ye hume dikha deta hai ke hum asal me kaun hain.

           Agar dil me bojh hoga,

           toh ibadat bhi bojh lagegi.

          Tayari ka pehla qadam: Maafi

          Ramzan se pehle ek kaam zaroor karo —

          maaf kar do.

          Har us shakhs ko:

          Jisne tumhe dukh diya

          Jisne tumhara dil toda

          Jiska naam yaad aate hi dil bhari ho jaata hai

         Ye maafi unke liye nahi, tumhare liye hai.

         Kyuki Ramzan ka noor bhaari dil me poori tarah utar nahi paata.

    Tayari ka doosra qadam: Khud se sach bolna

     Khud se poochho:

     Kya meri namaz sirf aadat ban gayi hai?

     Kya main dua sirf mushkil me karta/ karti hoon?

     Kya Quran sirf shelf pe hai, dil me nahi?

     Ye sawaal Allah tumse nahi pooch raha, tum apne aap se pooch rahe ho.

     Aur jab insaan khud se sach bol leta hai, tab Allah ke saamne jhukna aasaan ho jaata hai.

        Tayari ka teesra qadam: Choti niyat, bada asar

        Sab log Ramzan me bohot bade goals bana lete hain:

        Poora Quran

        Har waqt ibadat  

        Perfect routine

        Aur phir kuch din baad thak jaate hain.

        Is baar choti niyat rakho:

     Roz ek ayat samajhne ki

     Roz 2 minute Allah se baat karne ki  

     Roz kisi ek buri aadat ko control karne ki

     Allah consistency dekhta hai, quantity nahi.

     

    Agar pichhla Ramzan jaisa nahi guzra ho toh?

    Shayad pichhla Ramzan:

    Gunaahon me guzra

    Aansoo ke bina guzra

    Ya bilkul khaali sa mehsoos hua

    Agar aisa hai, toh ye Ramzan tumhare liye aur bhi zyada khaas ho sakta hai.

    Kyuki Allah un logon ka intezaar karta hai jo toot kar laut-te hain.

    Aur agar tum ye post padh rahe ho, toh shayad ye bulawa tumhare liye hi hai.

    Ramzan aa raha hai… ab kya karein?

    Aaj hi: Dil halka karo

    Dua me shikayat nahi, shukar rakho

    Aur Allah se keh do:

   “Ya Allah, mujhe Ramzan ke layak bana de.”

    Bas itni si dua, kabhi kabhi poori zindagi badal deti hai.

    Aakhri baat

   Ramzan calendar me likha hua mahina nahi, Allah ka ek mauka hai.

   Ho sakta hai:

   Ye tumhara best Ramzan ho

   Ya shayad aakhri bhi

   Isliye tayari dil se karo.