.
Ramzan aa raha hai.
Har saal ki tarah chand dekha jayega, messages aayenge, status lagenge — “Ramzan Mubarak”.
Lekin is baar ek sawaal khud se poochna zaroori hai:
Ya phir hum sirf calendar ke hisaab se Ramzan ka intezaar kar rahe hain,
jabke dil, soch aur rooh abhi bhi pichhle saalon jaise hi hain?
Ramzan sirf ek mahina nahi hota.
Ye ek daawat hoti hai — Allah ki taraf se.
Aur daawat ke liye sirf kapde nahi, dil bhi tayaar kiya jata hai.
Tayari ka matlab sirf roza nahi
Jab Ramzan ka naam aata hai,
humari soch seedha yahin jaakar ruk jaati hai:
Sehri
Iftar
Namaz
Taraweeh 
Ye sab zaroori hai, lekin sach ye hai ke
Ramzan ki tayari pet se zyada, dil se shuru hoti hai.
Agar: Dil me gussa bhara ho
Kisi se nafrat ho
Kisi ko maaf na kar paaye ho
Ya khud se hi khafa ho
Toh roza sirf bhooka reh jana ban kar reh jaata hai.
Allah ko bhook nahi chahiye, Allah ko tumhara palatna chahiye.
Dil saaf kiye bina Ramzan ka asar kyun kam rehta hai?
Kabhi notice kiya hai? Kuch log Ramzan me bhi: Bechain rehte hain
Gussa jaldi aa jata hai, Dil bhaari hi rehta hai
Aur phir kehte hain:
“Pata nahi, is baar Ramzan jaisa feel hi nahi aa raha.”
Shayad isliye, kyunki humne andar ki safai nahi ki.
Ramzan ek aaina hai.
Ye hume dikha deta hai ke hum asal me kaun hain.
Agar dil me bojh hoga,
toh ibadat bhi bojh lagegi.
Tayari ka pehla qadam: Maafi
Ramzan se pehle ek kaam zaroor karo —
maaf kar do.
Har us shakhs ko:
Jisne tumhe dukh diya
Jisne tumhara dil toda
Jiska naam yaad aate hi dil bhari ho jaata hai
Ye maafi unke liye nahi, tumhare liye hai.
Kyuki Ramzan ka noor bhaari dil me poori tarah utar nahi paata.
Tayari ka doosra qadam: Khud se sach bolna
Khud se poochho:
Kya meri namaz sirf aadat ban gayi hai?
Kya main dua sirf mushkil me karta/ karti hoon?
Kya Quran sirf shelf pe hai, dil me nahi?
Ye sawaal Allah tumse nahi pooch raha, tum apne aap se pooch rahe ho.
Aur jab insaan khud se sach bol leta hai, tab Allah ke saamne jhukna aasaan ho jaata hai.
Tayari ka teesra qadam: Choti niyat, bada asar
Sab log Ramzan me bohot bade goals bana lete hain:
Poora Quran
Har waqt ibadat 
Perfect routine
Aur phir kuch din baad thak jaate hain.
Is baar choti niyat rakho:
Roz ek ayat samajhne ki
Roz 2 minute Allah se baat karne ki
Roz kisi ek buri aadat ko control karne ki
Allah consistency dekhta hai, quantity nahi.
Agar pichhla Ramzan jaisa nahi guzra ho toh?
Shayad pichhla Ramzan:
Gunaahon me guzra
Aansoo ke bina guzra
Ya bilkul khaali sa mehsoos hua
Agar aisa hai, toh ye Ramzan tumhare liye aur bhi zyada khaas ho sakta hai.
Kyuki Allah un logon ka intezaar karta hai jo toot kar laut-te hain.
Aur agar tum ye post padh rahe ho, toh shayad ye bulawa tumhare liye hi hai.
Ramzan aa raha hai… ab kya karein?
Aaj hi: Dil halka karo
Dua me shikayat nahi, shukar rakho
Aur Allah se keh do:
“Ya Allah, mujhe Ramzan ke layak bana de.”
Bas itni si dua, kabhi kabhi poori zindagi badal deti hai.
Aakhri baat
Ramzan calendar me likha hua mahina nahi, Allah ka ek mauka hai.
Ho sakta hai:
Ye tumhara best Ramzan ho
Ya shayad aakhri bhi
Isliye tayari dil se karo.